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Before You Start Blogging

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Before blogging became what it is today, it was more of an online journal. But now, it’s a form of business and people are making not just a living but a fortune from it. Normally I love writing; I would write in my notebook or diary, so when I discovered blogging, I was excited to show the word my craft.When some Nigerian bloggers like Linda Ikeji and Bella Naija started making money from it, I thought “oh, this is great”, I should start making money but the truth is, it’s not as easy as it seems. If you want to start a blog; whether as a hobby (the truth is, it always starts this way but then when you hear people making money from it, you become tempted to want to know how to make money as well) or business, you need to;

Do your research Trust me; it’s very important to know what you are getting into. For me it started as a hobby and thanks to Google Blogger for the free platform, nothing could stop me. I just opened a Gmail account, then blogger and wah-la!I started posting- my image…

Check out Tiffany Haddish New Man

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Actress and comedian, Tiffany Haddish is dating socialite Unik Ernest and according to reports they have been an item for months now. Haddish was spotted with Unik at the premiere of BlacKkKlansman, the new film by Spike Lee.


Unik shared on his instagram;'#AboutLastNight Dancing is more than just moving body parts; it is a pathway of expressing your deepest inner thoughts. #SheReady #blackklansman #UnikAccess #RepresentingHaiti,' Unik wrote in his caption.

How lonely are you?

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Relationship wise, I'm really lonely… well career wise as well.
You know, sometimes I want my alone time. Yes I know I want someone in my life but sometimes I think about being with one person for the rest of my life. I know you are wondering if I'm alright,i promise you I am and I want to believe I'm not the only one who feels this way.  Maybe it's because I have not found the right person to be with -being with the right person makes the relationship easier and worthwhile…. At least that's what I want to believe since I have not met the right person yet.
But I'm really lonely and my anxiety and depression does not help matters. Being depressed makes me feel angry, sad, emotional and irritated that most times it drives people away. The right people ought to stay right? But what if they didn't even get the chance to get to know you or met you at that depressed state, then what?
With being unemployed, my ex getting married  and moving on… life really sucks a…

Why exercising might seem difficult

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To be honest exercising is not my favorite thing in the world but it is important. You know… health wise.A younger me hardly exercise and it took a toll on me when I clocked 30. Though I did some dancing in school and sports activities that involved competition –though, that was in primary school, lol. The thing is I only exercise when it’s fun or because i feel like it, which involved mostly dancing. And I do this like maybe twice amount, which was not enough.

During my university days, the only exercise I did was walking from one department to another and back to my hostel – it wasn’t enough but it helped. Sometimes I wished I did more but hey! I’m still here…I can only do my best right? In my last post I talked about things I regret doing in my life, well, not exercising earlier should have been one of them.As a young girl I wasn’t really cautious about my body (what was good or bad for it),I ate whatever, never loved exercising, use any beauty product I see around the house… In my …

7 Things i Regret Doing in Life

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There are a lot of things I wish I knew before starting it; whether is a career move, relationships, dealing with family... Most times its when we fail we learn but I always wondered why I didn't have anyone to advice me, someone close to look up to. Sometimes, all we need is ourselves to get through a situation, to create something, to be great...and with this comes mistakes, that's how we learn from them. So, here are seven things I regret doing in my life.

Not following my instincts
There are so many times I wish I followed my instincts; like when my dad was dying and my gut was telling me to visit but I couldn't cause I was waiting for my elder sister so we could go together, we didn't make it before he gave up. Or is it when a guy is asking me out and I know this won't go anywhere but I doubt myself, assuming I might be wrong...Well, guess what? It never ends up well.
What I learnt here is not just following my instincts but taking time to decide if that is re…

How is life with you?

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Don’t you wish someone would just ask you that? And I’m not saying just for formalities ,like when a guy chat you up and ask “sup”, “how was your day” cause he is just trying to be polite or just thinks that’s what he supposed to do to show that he cares. I’m talking about someone asking “how is life with you” and really mean it. Like they really want to know if you are okay; not just financially, physically and emotionally.

Is she your girlfriend? What do you really want?

Who is this?At least that’s what I wanted to ask when I saw your whatsapp status but I said “who is the birthday girl?” I think I know the reply.Do I really want to know?