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Self-Care Strategies to Prepare for a New Relationship: Building a Strong Foundation

My Dating experience :Letter to an unnecessary Ex

Here's a letter to my ex that shouldn't have been an ex in the first place; Dear Valentine, I kept on thinking about our conversation after we ended the call yesterday and I just haven't gotten over it. I'm just sad. After saying you were testing me, it got me thinking how someone that claims to love you would use your weakness against you. You once said you couldn't figure me out and that I should help you out. I didn't want to cause I feared what would happen ,yet I opened up and told you about things that get me upset, I even explained my mood swings that time of the month. But you chose to "test " me after I spoke to you about my colleagues. After you flared up about video call ( when you should have been honest with me about it from the start),have I ever talked about it with you since then? No!  Because I know it's not something you like and I don't want to upset you. That is what people that love each other do. They both know

Happy New year!!!May this be your best year yet

Happy new year everyone!!!  Last year ended yesterday and today is a new day.  I'm so grateful for life, my family, friends and you all. I wish you the best year yet and may all your  awesome dreams come true.  No matter what life throws at you, take it like a champ and keep moving.  As long as we are alive, the sky is just a stepping stone.  You and I are made for greatness!  And from the look of things, 2020 is already looking better - Hey!  my first post in a long time *smiles *. I love you all and I hope I keep doing this everyday. Happy 2020 everyone!!! XO

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Happy New Year LD Family!!!

Thank God for making us see this year. Grateful for family, friends and you all. I'm excited that this year is a year of hope and celebration. Today is Friday- the year started on a weekend! You know what that means *smiles*. I just want each and everyone of us to have hope and faith ,that we may never experience what we experienced last year in the rest of our lifetime. That this new day is the beginning of everything good and new. The problems and troubles of 2020 has been washed away.  It's a new dawn, it's a new day, it's a new life!!! Live this year like it's golden, love like its your last day on earth and dance like nobody's watching. I love you all and can't wait to start telling you amazing stories. Happy New year LD family!!!

How to get over someone you love

  Love is a very beautiful thing and it could lead to happily ever after or it could lead to something disastrous.  There is indeed a thin line between love and hate.  But should that stop us from loving anyways? It never does and we shouldn't try to. Just like a One Tree Hill quote; "And if you're lucky, if you're the luckiest person on this entire planet, the person you love decides to love you back.” So why do we want to get over someone we love or used to love? They broke our hearts (maybe not intentionally),we changed and they didn't...Whatever it is, we just want to forget about them and act like it never happened.  Sorry to burst your bubble but you can't forget someone you love or used to love,they are part of you now.  You can only move on.  Does it take time? Yes. Will you find love again, Yes. Is there a time frame to get over someone? No (won't that be great though?) . I don't know where I read or heard this but it says it takes half the tim