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Happy New Year in Advance

Hello everyone,

Incase I have not said happy New Year in advance. Happy New year!!!

Ugh, a lot of things happened to me this year 2022; I lost my younger brother in January , quit my job in May and quit the new one in October. I met some cool people and lost some. I went through an emotional roller coaster and my blood pressure got really high.

There is a lot to unpack here but I really don’t feel like writing about it. Yes that is another thing; I have not been feeling like writing anything since I started staying at home again. I don’t feel like seeing people or going out.

Been thinking of how to make money without having to go to work six days a week every single morning, facing Lagos traffic and all the crazies that come with 9 to 5.

I feel hung-over typing this - tried to write articles every day but that didn’t work out, keep questioning myself if I am a good writer and why is it taking me this long to write something.

 Two days ago, I was really upset and just irritated. You know that feeling you get when you are at home a lot and everyone somehow starts to get on your nerves, Yeah, after almost three months of quitting my job, I had that feeling.

I just felt like I give up too easily and I should have waited a little bit longer before quitting m job. Do I regret resigning from the second job? Hell no! I just regret not staying till December to collect my 13th month salary, lol. 

The work environment was very toxic and this was mostly because of my supervisor. You know this saying about “women supporting women”? That is just BS, especially from this part of the world- Women actually tear down women. Yes she is a woman, and she is not the first woman I have had as a supervisor, so trust me when I say she was really toxic…

Anyways don’t want to bore you with a long story, just wanted to check on you all and know how you are doing and how my year has been so far and to wish you a prosperous, happy and healthy New Year.


I am grateful for my life and what I have been able to do for myself. I learnt a lot this year and my experience made me make decisions that the usual me wouldn’t.

It made me realize that life is too short; most people don’t really care so you have to also put yourself first in everything you do. 

You can only make people happy if you are happy. You can’t give what you don’t have. Even if you take someone else item, gift or possession to give to other people, you would never really know the value and you would just keep chasing after it until your last breath.

So why not seek for wisdom and ask God for your purpose and start to work on them. You are who you are and until you decide to pursue that purpose, you would just exist on this planet.

I feel sleeping writing this but I promised myself to write something before year 2022 ends and I am so glad I did.

 Thank you for your support on this blog and I hope to keep getting better at what i set my mind to, to spread kindness, love and peace everywhere i go.

I look forward to seeing you next year.

God Bless you. Happy New Year in advance.


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